Four – Set New Reference Points In Your Body
Learning about your body is all about setting new reference points for what is possible. Quite literally, we don’t know what we don’t know. I can’t tell you how often I will meet a woman who says she doesn’t really like sex.
That makes me smile because I know she really means that she hasn’t had any experiences that set reference points for what is possible. When it comes to the Kama Sutras – the deeper you go, the better you feel.
Three – Get Fluent in Sexual Intelligence.
Porn has made us dumb. Really. We think there’s basically one way to have sex. And that way is the only way. Rapid fire, loudly moaning, piston pumping, instant orgasm sex.
But of course, that’s simply not true. There’s a whole lot of ways to have sex – perhaps infinite. The kama sutras will help teach you the beauty of variation. Variation has everything to do with developing your sexual IQ.
Two – The Kama Sutras will teach you that you “Ain’t In Kansas Anymore.”
It’s easy to get stuck in a point of view or perspective about life. Our own cognitive biases convince us that there really is no other way to live than our own way. Which is false. But it’s not until we look at the sexual practices of other cultures that we begin to realize that it’s a big world out there. Especially sexually.
Each and every time we discover something new, we can also see that there’s a bigger and bigger world of knowledge about sex and sexuality.
One – The Kama Sutras will Teach you How To Practice Asking For What You Want.
As I mentioned, we don’t know what we don’t know. So if you can have a menu of positions to try, you can figure out what works best for your pleasure. Reverse cowgirl on top perhaps. Or, L shape, head resting on floor, butt up on the bed. Or? The only way to figure out what you love is to try different flavors, positions, speeds, sensations.
The Top Ten Reasons why you want to study the Kama Sutras show you that learning to step out of your comfort zones creates an environment of change, pleasure and bliss. Bliss feels good. Connection feels good. And sharing our desires, vulnerably, with another person is really the key to successful relating and deeper relationships.
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